Harlow MP reflects on death of his uncle in LGBT debate in House of Commons
Chris Vince / Thu 20th Feb 2025 at 07:56am
HARLOW MP stood up on the floor of the House of Commons in a debate on LGBT+ History Month.
Chris Vince said: I was not going to intervene on that point, but I was reminded of my Uncle Stephen who sadly passed away in the ’90s following a positive HIV diagnosis and I wanted to take this opportunity to mention him in this place. [Hon. Members: “Hear, hear.”] Thank you.

Does the Minister agree that it is so important that we end the stigma around HIV to support more people, so that people like my Uncle Stephen do not have their lives ended prematurely?
Nia Griffith The Parliamentary Under-Secretary of State for Wales replied:
I thank my hon. Friend for mentioning a very, very personal experience of the terrible losses we saw in the 1980s and 1990s. He is absolutely right. From those very first moments, when we were perhaps fearful to be the first person to wear the red ribbon on 1 December, we can now hopefully combat that stigma. But we know there is still a lot to do worldwide to combat stigma and ensure people get the treatments that are available.
Last week, I had the privilege to visit Fast Track Cymru in Cardiff and hear about the innovative work it is doing to eradicate the transmission of HIV, including the test and post service now available in Wales.
Before I move on to issues relating to trans and gender-questioning youth, I am sure I do not need to remind Members of my earlier words urging measured, considered and respectful debate. I am pleased to confirm that NHS England has opened three children and young people’s gender services, in the north-west, London and Bristol. The services operate under an innovative model and embed multidisciplinary teams in specialist children’s hospitals. The services have begun seeing patients from the national waiting list. A fourth service will open in the east of England in spring. NHS England remains on schedule to deliver a gender clinic in each region of England by 2026.
On puberty blockers, I am aware of the views of many on the subject and how sensitive it can be. In March last year, NHS England took the decision not to commission the routine use of puberty blockers for the treatment of gender incongruence, informed by an evidence review conducted by the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence. The findings were echoed in the Cass review and in accompanying systematic reviews conducted by the University of York, which found insufficient evidence to support the safety or clinical effectiveness of puberty blockers for adolescents. There is a clear time for this order to be reviewed in 2027. Better-quality evidence is critical if the NHS is to provide reliable transparent information and advice to support children and young people, and their parents and carers, in making potentially life-changing decisions. That is why we are supporting NHS England to set up a study into the impacts of puberty-suppressing hormones as a treatment option for children and young people with gender incongruence. The trial aims to begin recruiting participants in spring 2025.
On education, as many are aware, before venturing into politics I was, by profession, a comprehensive school teacher. Back in the ’80s, section 28, introduced into law by the then Conservative Government, banned the “promotion of homosexuality” or
“the teaching in any maintained school of the acceptability of homosexuality as a pretended family relationship.”
In the classroom, if a pupil was verbally being hateful or discriminatory towards one of their peers, I did not want it to go unchallenged but found myself just telling them not to use such language or risk upsetting someone. Anything more explicit could have been potentially promoting homosexuality and breaking the law, and risked me losing my job. I did not protect those pupils who were the object of such comments in the way that they should have been protected. I should have done more. Today, the notion that an LGBT+ family is pretend is absurd to most. Nowadays, it is not uncommon to find same-sex parents picking up their children from school.
The whole debate is below:
https://www.theyworkforyou.com/debates/?id=2025-02-13a.447.0&s=speaker%3A26350#g449.0
A biological man can NOT be a women. This isn’t about Gay people anymore it’s been hijacked by the far left and the Trans ideology. It must stop
I think Mr Vince's would only just have been affected by Section 28 in his teaching career as it was repealed by the Blair government in 2003. However, Mr Vince is correct to conclude what a terribly discriminatory piece of legislation introduced by the Tories in 1986
The common sense view on trans is a consistent one. No medication or surgery to anyone under 18, after that fill your boots. N.I.H. figures for June 23 show transition regret at 22% as those who declared this, they found transitioning was not the silver bullet to their life utopia they thought it would be and some found they realised after that, thier turmoil was not their sex but their gender and being gay. So an awfull lot if things to take in at a time when your body and mind are already like a washing machine with a full load. Yes you can have surgery to make your outside appearance to look like the opposite sex BUT you will be on a lifetimes worth of medications to suppress your birth sex, something to think about. Lastly some confuse sex with gender. There are only two sexes, male and female, that has been the case since humanity began as backed up by science, the medical profession and history. Gender on the other hand, I've seen claim's of 62, 78 and some to be honest are simply ridiculous but if you want to identify as something, that's cool but also understand you can't force others to believe as you do. Lastly on teaching in schools, I'd prefer they stick to the facts and not the emotion. Wether your are LGBT+ or anti LGBT+ , both groups are conversion therapy which has no place in schools. Sex education is vital to teach our young people about their changing bodies. The joy that can bring but also the negatives too and leave it at that.
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